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We’re always told that it’s good to dream big. That we should have our goals planned out: write a hit novel, become a surgeon, run a successful business.
But as we embark on making those dreams a reality at university and beyond, we can come unstuck. Most people have experienced those difficulties to some extent. The progress to achieving our goals is slow-moving. There are still a lot of blank pages that we’re trying to fill.
So, what’s the key to achieving the goals we set ourselves and realising our dreams?
Some Psychologists suggest that instead of setting goals, we should create habits.
They argue that a goal is too far off in the distance for it to have a significant effect on our daily lives.
A goal doesn’t help you get the thing done. In fact, until you reach the goal you exist in a sort of state of failure, e.g. ‘I haven’t written a novel yet.’
Instead, we should create a habit that fits with the sort of person we are, or want to be.
For example, writing that thesis is a daunting prospect, with many thousands of words to compile. But if you create a habit: ‘I’m the sort of person who writes for an hour every morning,’ the thesis takes care of itself.
In both cases (goal or habit), the end result is often the same (these completed). But crucially, our happiness, and therefore our ability to produce our best work, is far greater when we employ habits.
We’re creatures of habit after all.